Monthly Archive for April, 2009

Outreach Project

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This week Caleb’s class did a fun thing – they joined with a mission organization that was handing out gift boxes to children from a Sunday School class in a nearby neighborhood.   Dorcas’ adoptive father happens to be the pastor at the church, so it was fun to see her family again.  And the church is just a few blocks away from the center I’ve been working at, so many of “our” boys were hanging around.  It was fun to see them recognize me and point and wave.

Caleb’s class played soccer a bit with the kids from the neighborhood, then the program began.  The woman running the event introduced the kids from Dakar Academy.  The DA kids sang a few songs they had learned in Wolof, and then the Senegalese children sang a song as well.  The pastor gave a message, and then the gift boxes were handed out.  Afterward, it was a bit of a mob scene as we tried to make our way to the car – the event had been held outside and there were many, many bystanders.  They just swarmed around our kids as they tried to leave – it was a bit scary.  Thankfully they were all friendly faces, but it was still a bit unnerving.

I don’t know the people who filled the gift boxes that they handed out, but they were surely appreciated!  :-)   gifts-1

Caleb’s teacher watches as a classmate hands out one of the gift boxes.

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Caleb and one of his buddies.

Doing dishes by candlelight…

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Well, the power cuts are becoming more and more frequent once again.  For the first 4 or 5 months after our arrival, we had multiple power cuts a day, and they often lasted for hours.  Then in December the weather became consistently comfortable, and the cuts seemed to almost stop altogether.  But over the past few weeks, as it has begun getting warmer again, they have started up.  They still don’t last as long as they did in the fall, but we anticipate they will get more frequent and longer in duration as the hot season comes again.  We’re so thankful for our generator, which we have yet to connect… a fan can make a world of difference when it gets really hot!

There’s no place like home

Happy 16th birthday Will!  (Flash wasn't working - so picture is a bit fuzzy...)

Happy 16th birthday Will! (Flash wasn't working - so picture is a bit fuzzy...)

Our oldest son Will, who just celebrated his 16th birthday last week, has been asking for months if he could please, please go back to Franklin, MA for the summer.  Bill and I talked to other missionary parents about this idea, and found out that in fact it is not uncommon for teenagers to spend the summer back in the States, especially as they get closer to college age.  It gives them a chance to reconnect with extended family, get their driver’s license (or at least their permit) and e4rxcdddssssssssssssss (oops, JD just joined me – see below…)

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get some part-time work experience.  We have also heard that many families travel during the summer, which means there are not many kids around, and it can get pretty quiet for the ones remaining.  Armed with these facts, we began to check to see if we might be able to send Will home.

We checked our frequent flier balance and found that we had just enough miles for a round trip ticket to Boston.  We also discovered that there was only one seat, on one flight, available for use with a frequent flier ticket during the entire first three months of June, and only one during the last week of June.  We had hoped to have all our ducks in a row before committing to the trip – housing and a job lined up for Will, etc. – but we didn’t want to lose the ticket.  So we went ahead and booked it – and now Will leaves Dakar on June 9, a week after school is out for the summer.

Will is so excited!  The rest of us have mixed feelings.  On the one hand, we know he will have a wonderful time.  But we will all miss him so much!  It will be particularly difficult for Sam, since he and Will often do things together and he is going to miss his buddy.  But it will give Sam the opportunity to be the oldest for a while – and I think that could be a good thing for him.  We’ve tried to begin making some plans to do some fun family things together this summer, to give Sam, Caleb and Anna something to look forward to, hoping that will make them feel better about spending the summer without their big brother.  This past weekend Will has been at the High School Youth Group retreat, so we’ve had a taste of what it’s like to have 5 at the dinner table instead of 6 – and it has felt weird!  I guess it’s a bit like when your firstborn goes off to college – but in our case, this is two years early.

I know we have a lot of dear friends who probably think we are crazy – who would never think of letting their 16-year-old son travel alone, and be away from them for two months.  But this is one of the realities of being on the mission field – and it’s only the beginning.  Many of the women in my Bible Study have children in college back in the States, some have married children and some even grandchildren they are not able to see as often as they would like.  It’s not a part of this life we are looking forward to.  But I just re-read Hudson Taylor’s “Spiritual Secret,” and it reminded me how fortunate we are to be on the mission field in 2009.  When 21-year-old Taylor waved goodbye to his dear mother as he began his six month journey to China, he didn’t expect he would ever see her again on this earth.  When he was older and his childrens’ health was at stake, he sent them home to live in England and was separated from them for years at a time.  Today, it’s a whole different world.  We have Skype on the computer and I can call people for free and see their faces on my computer screen as we talk.  We have a Vonage phone and people can call us as if they are calling Massachusetts, with only a four hour time difference.  It is expensive to fly, yes, but we can fly directly from Dakar to Boston in eight hours or less.

I’m not saying that just because it’s easier to keep in touch than it was in 1853, that it’s easy to let Will make this trip; it’s not.  I get anxious at times and have to pray once again that God will protect him and keep him safe, and that all the logistics will fall into place.  But, he is so looking forward to seeing his friends, to spending time in Maine with my family, to getting a job, to getting his permit… and he is not at all worried about the traveling alone part – getting through airports, etc.   We’re praying that God will bless this summer for each member of our family, and make us stronger as a result of it.

So, if you know about a part-time job in the Franklin/Norfolk/Bellingham area this summer, we’d love to hear about it!  I realize it’s going to be a tough summer to find work, but we are hopeful.  Most likely Will will travel to New York State soon after his arrival, since school will still be in session in Franklin.  He will visit my parents and two of my sisters and their families, and head back to Franklin about the time school is out.  He will head up to Maine around the first of August, so basically he will be available to work the last two weeks of June and the whole month of July.

Please pray for us as this trip gets closer.  And if there is anything you’d like from Africa, let us know!  :-)

Happy Easter!

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Our day started early – with a 6:30 sunrise service at Dakar Academy.  I’ve always hated getting up for sunrise services, but I have always loved them once I’m there!  It’s so wonderful to hear the birds singing and feel the cool air of the morning (yes, even here it was cool – many people had blankets!  Not me, of course – I keep waiting to adapt to this climate…) as you’re singing “Christ the Lord is Risen Today.”  The school choir sang (it was the first time we saw Will perform in it – he only joined the choir this semester),  the drama group performed, and there was lots of singing.  Very moving and special.

After church we went back to the house for several hours.  The sunrise service was the only one DA had – it lasted an hour and a half – and we weren’t due at Dorcas’ house until 1:00.  Dorcas is the young woman who works for us several days a week, and she had invited us to share the Easter meal with her family.  Her own parents died years ago, and she was adopted by a pastor and his wife.  She is the oldest child in the family, and helps to support them.  While we waited to go to Dorcas’ house, I worked in the kitchen and Anna decorated the cake.  She continues to love drawing and this is the second year she has made a picture with candy on the Easter cake.  Mom and Dad sent us lots of yummy American candy, and Bruce’s sisters brought some Easter candy with them on their recent visit to Dakar as well, so Anna even had real M&M’s to decorate with!

This was the first time we had been to Dorcas’ house.  She lives in the same neighborhood as the center where Julie and I are working – it is a highly populated and poor area.  We had to walk through someone else’s living space to get to the stairs leading up to where Dorcas’ family lived.  We walked into the common space, like a long, wide hallway.  Along one of the walls there were two doors leading to small bedrooms, and across from that there was just a half-wall which was open to the outdoors on the top half.  You could climb another flight of stairs and be on the roof, with a wall surrounding it.  And that was pretty much the extent of the place.   I don’t think there was running water, and I never saw the bathroom.  I didn’t see a kitchen, either, and I imagine they do their cooking like many do – over a small tank of gas.  (These look about the size of propane tanks we use with our gas grills, with a circular rim on top that you can put a pan on.  The flame comes right out of the tank and you can cook on it.)  It was sobering to see how Dorcas lives.  Even here, in Africa, where we feel we are living a simple life (and it is simple, relative to how we lived before), we still have no idea what it is like to live with almost nothing.

There was another American couple there who attend the church where Dorcas’ adoptive father preaches.  We sat with them, the pastor, Dorcas, and Dorcas’ brother in one of the bedrooms in kind of a crowded circle.  The power was out the whole time we were there, there were no windows in the room, and a curtain hung in the doorway, so it got quite hot!  Still, we enjoyed visiting with Dorcas’ relatives, in a mixture of French, Wolof, and even a little English.  (The other Americans are focusing on Wolof and haven’t had too much French, and we know almost no Wolof, so we all made do with whatever worked.)

Eventually Dorcas brought in the meal.  I have to admit I was not feeling good about it at first sight!  :-)   Normally, when you eat a Senegalese meal, it is served in a large common bowl over a bed of rice.  There might be meat or fish or chicken on the rice, and usually a variety of vegetables.  Almost always potatoes and carrots, sometimes beans or cabbage.  Our friend Ibou once told us that on holidays, they replace rice with another starch – potatoes or bread – because that makes the meal special.  (They eat rice on all the other days of the year – it’s too common for holidays.)  All this to say that, even on holidays, there’s always been a starch involved in every meal I’ve had here, and I know that the kids can fill up on rice or potatoes even if they can’t eat anything else.   Our kids are not the pickiest eaters on the planet but they also are not overly-adventurous, so when I saw Dorcas coming with a large tray of what looked like either pea soup or refried beans, and nothing else, I was quite nervous.    And I was thinking – I know you always eat with your hands here but how in the world are we supposed to eat that with our hands?!   But, I was pleasantly surprised that not only did Dorcas give us all spoons, but that all of us really enjoyed the meal!  (A bowl of baguette pieces did make its way to us after a time, so after trying the peas, Anna stuck to bread.)  There were some pieces of mutton and potatoes in the peas, and the sauce was very spicy and really delicious.  We finished the meal with Anna’s cake and soda that we had brought at Dorcas’ request, so while we weren’t as full as we usually are after our traditional Easter ham dinner, we felt well-fed.

After eating, we visited for another hour or so.  Dorcas has a new baby sister, only a month old, so she was passed all around.  They opened the baby blanket we had brought as a gift, and we handed out some plastic eggs with candy inside them which were a huge hit!  The family asked me to take pictures and I took many.  I’ve posted all our Easter pictures on our Shutterfly photo sharing site – although my Mom says she was not able to gain access to it without the aid of the Shutterfly help team.  I’m hoping to get that site linked up with this one, so that you can easily see pictures, so if you can’t see the Easter pictures just yet, hopefully you will be able to soon.

We left Dorcas’ and headed over to the Adamson’s house for their annual candy hunt.  There were probably about 10 or 15 missionary families there with their kids, and it was fun to hang out together for a few hours.  Every family brought candy-filled plastic eggs and the dads hid them in the yard.  Later we all came inside for finger sandwiches and other snacks.  It was a busy day, but very enjoyable!  Hope you all had a great Easter.  He is Risen Indeed!

Dorcas (seated) and her family

Dorcas (seated) and her family

Anna with baby Françoise

Anna with baby Françoise

Anna counts her eggs to make sure she doesn't have more than 10!

Anna counts her eggs to make sure she doesn't have more than 10!

PS – this is totally unrelated to Easter – but my friend Jenni just sent a link to some articles on the Focus on the Family “Plugged In” website that I thought some of you might be interested in reading.  They are written by a woman returning to the US after several years overseas and her struggle with reverse culture-shock.  I think the author does a great job combining good-natured humor with her observations.  There are going to be three parts to this series, this link takes you to the first two.         http://www.pluggedinonline.com/read/read/a0004580.cfm

“I fell on my ear, I fell on my face…”

“…I fell on myself all over the place!”  That’s a line from “The Digging-est Dog,” the first book I could read.  (Remember, Mom?  Working on it each night in the back bedroom with little flash cards?)  And it describes rather nicely my experience this past Sunday night as I came down with malaria.  I had been in bed all afternoon feeling sick, but had gotten up sometime late in the evening to use the bathroom.  The last thing I remember was feeling woozy and sitting down on the side of the tub – the next thing I knew I had the sensation of hitting rock, and came to, lying on my face on the tile of our bedroom floor!  Today, having taken malaria meds for several days, I feel better, but still have bruises under my eye, on my cheek and chin, and also on my right knee.  It’s really fortunate that my knee and the side of my face took the blow, I could have easily broken my nose if I fell straight forward.   The malaria medicine is giving me bizarre dreams.  But I’m very, very thankful for it.  :-)

The kids are back at school this week, after having two weeks off for Spring Break.  The first week we didn’t do much, as Bill was still at the University each day, and attended a Wolof Consultation late in the week.  But the second week, the University also had a break, so we took the opportunity to take a few day trips to do some sightseeing.  We visited a game reserve about an hour and a half away, we went to Gorée Island, sadly well-known for its historic slave house, and we traveled to Pink Lake, also outside of Dakar.   Pink Lake was somewhat of a disappointment, not really looking very pink the day we saw it, but the day was fun anyway because our friend Ibou was with us, and we had lots of time to visit while sitting in typical Dakar traffic!  I’ve uploaded lots of pictures of our excursions on our photo sharing website – martinsvoyage.shutterfly.com – but here are a few as well…